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Strap-on-me

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Strap-on-me makes some of the most thoughtfully designed strap-on harnesses and dildos on the market right now, and if you've never tried a strap-on setup before, this brand is a genuinely good place to start. The harnesses fit a wide range of body types, the materials are body-safe, and the dildo attachments are interchangeable so you're not locked into one size forever. We stock the full Strap On Me range here at Mshop, with 1-2 day delivery and discreet packaging as standard. Whether you're buying for partnered play or solo use, the quality difference between a cheap harness and one of these is immediately obvious the first time you put it on.

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All Sliding Skin Realistic Dildo Vanilla
All Sliding Skin Realistic Dildo Vanilla
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Sliding Skin Realistic Dildo Vanilla
Ø 3.6 cm / Length 12.8 cm. Dildo with interactive foreskin and suction cup.
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3,6 - 4,6 cm
All Harness Lingerie Heroine Black
All Harness Lingerie Heroine Black
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Harness Lingerie Heroine Black
Strap-on panties with decorative braces
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All Strap-On-Me - Semi-Real Bendlabe Strap-On
All Strap-On-Me - Semi-Real Bendlabe Strap-On
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Strap-On-Me - Semi-Real Bendlabe Strap-On
This Strap-On is perfect both for sex between two women and for pegging!
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3,7 / 3,7 cm
All Leatherette Harness Curious
All Leatherette Harness Curious
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Leatherette Harness Curious
Adjustable strap on harness with dual function as handcuffs.
Leatherette Harness Curious Metallic Blue
Leatherette Harness Curious Rose Gold Holographic
Leatherette Harness Curious Bronze
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All Harness Lingerie Diva Black
All Harness Lingerie Diva Black
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Harness Lingerie Diva Black
Strap-on panties with open back
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All Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap On Night Blue M
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Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap On Night Blue M
Strapless strapon with vibration, air pressure and penetration. Elegant and modern. Three separate motors for the ultimate pleasure.
145 €
16,2 cm
3,9 - 4,7 cm
All Dildo Geisha Balls Black XL
All Dildo Geisha Balls Black XL
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Dildo Geisha Balls Black XL
Silicone dildo with three internal movement balls
77 €
17,7 cm
4,2 cm
All Vibrating Bendable Strap On
All Vibrating Bendable Strap On
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Vibrating Bendable Strap On
Multifunctional strapless dildo - as many as 3 different vibration motors
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3,9 cm
All Squirting Cum Semi Realistic Dildo Vanilla
All Squirting Cum Semi Realistic Dildo Vanilla
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Squirting Cum Semi Realistic Dildo Vanilla
Ø 3.6 cm / 17 cm penetration length, squirting sperm dildo. Perfect together with a strap on harness!
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All Dildo Geisha Balls Black M
All Dildo Geisha Balls Black M
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Dildo Geisha Balls Black M
Silicone dildo with three internal balls that move with you
63 €
15,3 cm
3,6 cm
All Strap-On-Me - Multi Orgasm Dildo - S - Purple
All Strap-On-Me - Multi Orgasm Dildo - S - Purple
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Strap-On-Me - Multi Orgasm Dildo - S - Purple
Smooth silicone with a teasing flicking tip and deep vibration for perfectly blended pleasure. Remote control keeps things hands-free, playful, and right where you want it.
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All Strap-On-Me - Leatherette Harness Desirous - OS
All Strap-On-Me - Leatherette Harness Desirous - OS
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Strap-On-Me - Leatherette Harness Desirous - OS
Lock in a snug, comfy fit with padded support for confident, hands-free thrusting. Sleek vegan leatherette wipes clean fast and keeps your flared-base toys secure.
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All Strap-On-Me - Multi Orgasm Realistic Dildo - Black - M
All Strap-On-Me - Multi Orgasm Realistic Dildo - Black - M
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Strap-On-Me - Multi Orgasm Realistic Dildo - Black - M
Harness-free Dildo that stays put with a soft silicone bulb and bendy neck for hands-free thrusts. Triple motors plus clit suction serve up 27 remote-ready moods, all waterproof and rechargeable.
105 €
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All Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Sublime - L - Black
All Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Sublime - L - Black
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Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Sublime - L - Black
Lingerie-soft and seriously secure, with a universal silicone O-ring that keeps toys locked in. Adjustable, comfy, and machine-washable so you can play longer and clean up fast.
51 €
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All Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Unique - OS - Grey
All Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Unique - OS - Grey
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Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Unique - OS - Grey
Lingerie-sleek and deliciously comfy, with dual O-rings that switch from single to double play in seconds. Soft, adjustable microfiber hugs like a second skin and washes clean with ease.
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All Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Sublime - M - Black
All Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Sublime - M - Black
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Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Sublime - M - Black
Lacy, lingerie-like high-waist fit that feels as good as it looks. Dual silicone O-rings keep your toy steady for confident thrusts.
51 €
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All Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Sublime - S - Black
All Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Sublime - S - Black
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Strap-On-Me - Harness Lingerie Sublime - S - Black
Luxe lace and soft microfibre with a hidden universal ring, for looks that tease. Secure, comfy high-waist fit with reinforced points, so play stays steady for longer.
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Strap on Mshop is one of our most searched categories, and it makes sense, harness-based play opens up a lot of possibilities that other products simply don't. The range here covers traditional harness-and-dildo combos, strapless strap-ons that work without a harness at all, and double-ended designs built for two people at once. They're used by couples of all genders and orientations, solo players who want hands-free penetration, and people exploring pegging for the first time.

One thing buyers often don't realise: the harness and the dildo are usually sold separately. That's actually a good thing. It means you can pair a harness you trust with a dildo that fits your body and your partner's preferences, rather than being locked into whatever combo a manufacturer decided to bundle. If you're buying your first setup, check that the harness O-ring size matches the base diameter of the dildo you're pairing it with. Most harnesses use interchangeable rings, but not all.

Jockstrap-style harnesses sit around the hips and thighs with minimal coverage, they're comfortable for longer sessions and easy to put on. Underwear-style harnesses look more like briefs and tend to feel more secure for beginners. Thong-back designs allow rear access, which matters depending on what you're planning. None of these is objectively better; it comes down to fit and what you're actually doing.

Material matters more than most buyers expect. Leather harnesses last a long time and mould to your body over repeated use, but they need proper care and can't be fully submerged. Nylon and neoprene options are easier to clean and usually cheaper, though they don't have the same longevity. If you're buying a harness as a first purchase and aren't sure how much use it'll get, a well-made nylon version is a perfectly sensible choice.

Adjustability is the other thing to check. A harness that doesn't fit properly is uncomfortable and can shift during use, which ruins the experience. Look for multiple adjustment points, waist, hips, and thigh straps if possible. Most quality harnesses accommodate a wide range of body sizes, but read the sizing notes before you buy.

Strapless strap-ons skip the harness entirely. One end is inserted vaginally by the wearer, and the toy stays in place through muscle tension and body movement. The appeal is obvious: more sensation for the wearer, less gear to deal with, and a more connected feel during use.

The honest caveat is that strapless designs have a learning curve. They require some pelvic floor strength and coordination to keep in place, especially during more active use. Beginners sometimes find them frustrating at first. If you're new to this style, start with a shorter session and focus on positioning before worrying about anything else. They do get easier with practice.

Some models in this category also vibrate, which adds stimulation for both partners simultaneously. That's a genuine selling point, not just a marketing add-on.

For harness use, you need a dildo with a flared base, specifically a flat, wide base that sits flush against the O-ring. Suction-cup bases usually work fine. Tapered or rounded bases don't anchor properly and will pull through the ring under pressure. This is the single most common mistake first-time buyers make.

Silicone is the material we'd recommend for most people. It's body-safe, non-porous, easy to sterilise, and available in a huge range of firmness levels. Softer silicone feels more realistic; firmer silicone gives more control and precision. Some dildos use a dual-density construction with a firm core and softer outer layer, which a lot of people find more comfortable for the receiving partner.

TPE and PVC options exist at lower price points, but they're porous, which means bacteria can survive cleaning. If you're sharing a toy between partners or using it anally, silicone is worth the extra cost. Full stop.

Glass and metal dildos are compatible with harnesses too, provided the base geometry works. They're easy to clean, temperature-responsive, and extremely durable. Not for everyone, but worth knowing about.

Pegging, anal penetration of a male partner using a strap-on, has become significantly more mainstream over the past decade, and a lot of the searches that land on this page come from couples exploring it for the first time. A few practical points worth knowing before you buy:

  • Start smaller than you think you need to. A lot of first-time buyers overestimate size and end up with something uncomfortable. A slim, smooth dildo in a soft silicone is a much better starting point than anything labelled "realistic" or "large".
  • Lube is non-negotiable for anal play. The rectum doesn't self-lubricate, so use a generous amount of a good water-based lubricant and reapply as needed.
  • Communication matters more than technique. Go slowly, check in with your partner, and don't push through discomfort.
  • Cleaning after anal use requires proper sanitisation. Boil-safe silicone toys can be sterilised in boiling water; others need a dedicated toy cleaner.

You can browse our full range of sex toys at Mshop.eu if you want to explore related categories alongside your harness setup.

Harnesses: wipe down nylon and neoprene with a damp cloth and mild soap after each use. Leather harnesses should be wiped clean and treated with a leather conditioner periodically. Don't soak leather in water.

Dildos: non-porous silicone, glass, and metal can be boiled or run through a dishwasher (top rack, no detergent) for full sterilisation. Porous materials like TPE need warm soapy water and a dedicated cleaner, but can't be fully sterilised, keep that in mind if you're sharing.

Store toys in a clean pouch or box, away from other silicone items. Silicone-on-silicone contact over time can cause surface degradation. Most toys come with a storage bag; use it.

We've been selling adult products for over 40 years, and our customer service team has training in sexology, so if you have a question that goes beyond "which size should I pick", you can actually get a useful answer. Orders ship in 1-2 days in discreet, unmarked packaging. Free shipping applies on orders over 69 euros. Returns are accepted within 30 days for unused, sealed products. Our Trustpilot score sits at 4.7 out of 5 across more than 10,000 reviews, which we think speaks for itself.

Brands stocked in this category include well-known names in the harness and dildo space. We update the range regularly based on what's actually selling and what customers are asking for.

Usually, yes. Most harnesses are sold without a dildo included, which gives you the flexibility to choose a dildo that suits your body and preferences. Some starter kits do bundle both together, which can be convenient if you're buying for the first time and don't want to think too hard about compatibility. Just check that the dildo base fits the harness O-ring before you buy separately.
Smaller than you think. A lot of first-time buyers go too large and find the experience uncomfortable for the receiving partner. A slim, smooth dildo in soft silicone is a much better starting point. You can always size up later once you know what works.
They work well, but they do require some practice. Strapless designs stay in place through muscle tension rather than a harness, so they can shift during use until you get used to them. If you're completely new to strap-on play, a traditional harness setup is more forgiving. That said, many people prefer strapless designs once they've got the hang of it, because the sensation for the wearer is noticeably better.
No. The dildo needs a flared, flat base that's wide enough to sit against the harness O-ring without pulling through. Tapered or rounded bases won't work. Most harnesses come with interchangeable O-rings in different sizes, so check the base diameter of your dildo against the ring sizes included with the harness.
Yes. All orders from Mshop ship in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The sender name on the label doesn't reference the store or the product category in any way.
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