What is BDSM and where do I start?

BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism. It covers a wide range of activities and dynamics between consenting adults. The best starting point is usually something low-intensity, a blindfold, soft restraints, or a light flogger, combined with clear communication and an agreed safe word. You don't need to buy a lot of gear to get started.

Is it safe to order BDSM products online?

Yes. At Mshop, all orders are shipped in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. Payment descriptions are also discreet. Your privacy is protected at every step of the process.

What bondage gear is best for beginners?

Soft padded cuffs and a good blindfold are the most accessible starting points. They're easy to use, comfortable, and reversible, meaning either partner can end the experience immediately without any tools. Avoid metal restraints or anything with a locking mechanism until you're more experienced with the dynamics involved.

What is the difference between bondage and BDSM?

Bondage refers specifically to the physical restraint of a partner, using cuffs, rope, spreader bars, or similar. BDSM is the broader category that includes bondage but also covers power exchange dynamics, impact play, sensory deprivation, and more. Bondage is one part of BDSM, not a synonym for it.

Can I return BDSM products if they don't suit me?

Yes. Mshop offers a 30-day return policy in line with consumer protection law. Products must be unused and in their original packaging. If you're unsure about sizing or compatibility before buying, our customer service team is happy to help you choose.

Fetisch & bondage

435 products

Our BDSM shop carries everything from beginner-friendly bondage restraints to serious gear for experienced players, handcuffs, spreader bars, blindfolds, whips, nipple clamps, gag balls, and a lot more. Mshop has been running since the early 1980s, and the BDSM range has grown faster than almost any other category we stock. One thing most people don't expect: quality matters far more here than with standard sex toys, because poorly made restraints can cause real injury. We only carry products we'd actually recommend. Delivery is discreet, the box gives nothing away, and orders over 69 euros ship free. If you're not sure where to start, the beginner bondage sets are genuinely the right call.

Handcuff

Flogger

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Sex Pillow

Fifty Shades of Grey

Sex Swing

Spreader Bar

Nipple Clamp

Sei Mio

Ouch!

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - 10m

Soft, silky, skin‑kind rope that holds secure knots without roughness or fuss.

9 €

10 m

Sei Mio

Sei Mio Sensually Secured Velvet Handcuffs

Handcuffs

21 €

Sei Mio

Sei Mio Eyes Wide Shut Soft Velvet Blindfold

Soft velvet blocks all light — heightened sensation begins in darkness

13 €

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Zado

Zado Leather Flogger Wood

Genuine leather tails go from teasing brushes to satisfying snap with easy control. A curved wooden handle sits steady in hand and adds extra options when you feel playful.

59 €

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62 €

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Cave Master

Cave Master - The Chair

Discreet sex chair that can be used for masturbation, oral sex or with a partner

51 €

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81 €

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Lust

Fetish sheet

Slippery, protective, and ready for wet play

21 €

200 x 220 cm

Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey - Greedy Girl - G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Dual-motor rabbit with 36 vibration combinations for G-spot &...

81 €

24 cm

4 cm

Doc Johnson

Japanese Drip Candles 3pack

3 pack of hot bondage candles for exciting BDSM sex.

13.5 €

Cave Master

Fantasy sex Swing

Easy to assemble. Enables an infinite number of positions. A wonderful sex swing with lots of setting options, Can be mounted in both doorways and ceilings Takes your enjoyment to a whole new level

94 €

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190 €

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Cave Master

Bondage Sex Swing

Experience weightless enjoyment! Stable sex swing that enables exciting positions and can withstand up to 150 kg

85 €

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145 €

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Sei Mio

Sei Mio You're All Mine Impression Spanking Paddle

Spanking Paddle

19 €

Cave Master

Handbojor Metal Handcuffs

Chrome metal handcuffs with ratchet lock and double-lock safety

18 €

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27 €

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Sei Mio

Sei Mio Under Mattress Bed Restraint System

Spreader

61 €

Toys Inc.

Love Mask

Soft black blindfold with elastic strap — sensory play made simple

9 €

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13 €

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Cave Master

Furry Love Cuffs

Plush fur cuffs with quick-release and dual keys

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9 €

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15.5 €

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Kinky Massage

Sets

31.5 €

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200 x 220 cm

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Cave Master

Nipple Clamps with Chain

Adjustable nipple clips with soft cover and chain.

13 €

Fetish Fantasy

Position Master With Cuffs

Patent bodysuit with four padded cuffs for advanced positioning

33.5 €

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45 €

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Cave Master

Fuck Me Crazy Sex Machine

Thrusting sex machine with adjustable speed 70–250 strokes/min

180 €

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360 €

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Dream Toys

Blaze Collar and Leash Black

Black collar and leash set with adjustable fit

18 €

Loveboxxx

LoveBoxxx - I Love You

Perfect gift box with mixed sex toys for couples

18 €

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Cave Master

Ultimate Door Swing

Sex swing that you easily attach to a doorway without having to drill or screw it on.

27 €

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72 €

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Chisa Toys

Behave - Bind Love Rope

Made of light artificial silk10.5 meters longComfortable against the skinBlindfold included

18 €

10 m

Kinky Diva

Criss Cross Bra

Body harness bra with pearl accents and bondage aesthetic

One Size

42.5 €

Fetish Fantasy

Bed Bindings Restraint Kit

Turn any bed into a playground — no headboard needed

36 €

Boners

Boners - Cock Ring & Ball Stretcher

Double-ring design for fuller erections and enhanced presence

14.5 €

2,2 - 4 cm

Chisa Toys

Svart Bondagetejp

15 metres of self-adhesive bondage tape — no knots needed

9 €

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15 m

Ouch!

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Purple - 10m

Silky-smooth, low-friction rope for comfy knots, easy cleanup, and lasting play.

9 €

10 m

Dream Toys

Blaze Handcuff Black

Stylish & adjustable hand grips

26.5 €

You2Toys

RC Fucking Machine 2.0

Remote-controlled thrusting vibrator with adjustable suction cup

115 €

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135 €

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36,8 cm

3,6 cm

BDSM SEI MIO - Total Eclipse - Deluxe Blackout Mask

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Total Eclipse - Deluxe Blackout Mask

Complete darkness, zero eye pressure — shaped for comfort

27 €

Dream Toys

Blaze Deluxe Collar & Leash

Embroidered neoprene collar and leash set with detachable lead

22.5 €

Dream Toys

Lit-Up Nipple Suckers Small Purple

Small nipple suckers that increase sensitivity and give a wonderfully sucking feeling.

9 €

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Lust

Puff spanker

30 cm long sexy tickler and whip in one

8.5 €

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12 €

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Kitted

Luxury Fetish Kit

6-piece bondage kit in vegan leather with gold hardware

54 €

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63 €

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You2Toys

Bondage Rope

3-metre bondage rope in soft synthetic fibre — bend, bind, explore

12 €

3 m

Lust

Shhh...

157 cm reversible satin ribbon — for blindfolding and bondage

13.5 €

Sei Mio

Sei Mio Primed for Punishment Faux Leather Flogger

Spanker

19 €

Bad Kitty

BK Silicone Gag w. Dong

Dual-sided silicone gag with 9.5 cm dong for creative play

27 €

3 cm

Cave Master

Nipple and Clitoral clamps

Silvery nipple clamps with an extra clamp for the clitoris. Adjust the pressure yourself and see where your perfect limit goes.

9 €

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California Exotic Novelties

Universal Silicone Pump Sleeve

Have you got a crack in your pump sleeve or does it just not close really tightly anymore? Then it may be time to change the sleeve.

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7.5 €

Sei Mio

Sei Mio Strictly Come Quietly Soft Strap Silicone Ball Gag

Velvet-soft strap and body-safe silicone for calm, safe restraint

24.5 €

Orion

Fetishlakan

200 cm x 230 cm large lacquer sheet. Gives a wonderfully smooth surface and protects the bed from lubricants and body fluids.

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18 €

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200 cm x 230 cm

BDSM Stay Hard Beef Ball Stretcher Snug Xlong

Blush

Stay Hard Beef Ball Stretcher Snug Xlong

Ball stretcher for prolonged pleasure and deeper sensations

9 €

2,5 cm

Cock Master

Cock Cage The Chastity

Ø 4.2 cm and 10 cm long. Chastity belt with an open design.

45 €

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You2Toys

RC Fucking Machine

Vibrating and automatically penetrating sex machine. Rechargeable and portable!

90 €

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BDSM Fuck Me Harder Sex Machine Attachment 2 Pink Dildo

Extra 20% with code: SM20

Cave Master

Fuck Me Harder Sex Machine Attachment 2 Pink Dildo

Machine-driven thrusting for hands-free, continuous pleasure

12 €

22 cm

Newcomer

Dorcel

Dorcel - Power Ride - Black

Ride it your way with powerful thrusting, tapping, and a wide grinding pad for double the bliss. Waterproof, body-safe, and compact, it cleans up fast and hits hard when you want it.

99 €