Do I need to buy the harness and dildo separately?

Not always. Some products come as a complete set with both the harness and a compatible dildo included, the King Cock Strap-On Harness 6inch is one example. Others, like a standalone harness, are sold without a dildo so you can choose your own. Check the product description to see what's included before ordering.

Can any dildo be used with a strap on harness?

Only dildos with a flared or wide base will work safely in a harness. The base needs to be larger than the O-ring opening to stay in place. Most harness-compatible dildos are labeled as such, but if you're buying separately, measure the base diameter and compare it to the harness O-ring size.

Is a strap on suitable for anal play?

Yes, many people use harness setups for anal penetration. The key considerations are size (start smaller than you think you need), plenty of water-based lubricant, and a dildo made from non-porous body-safe material like silicone. Using a condom over the toy makes cleanup easier and is recommended if the toy is used for both anal and vaginal play.

How do I know what size to choose?

For first-time use, a length of around 15 cm and a moderate girth is a practical starting point for most people. The receiving partner's experience and comfort level matters more than any general guideline. If you're unsure, go smaller, you can always size up later, but an uncomfortable first experience tends to put people off entirely.

What lubricant should I use with a silicone strap on?

Water-based lubricant is the safe choice for silicone toys. Silicone-based lubricants can react with silicone toy surfaces over time, causing the material to degrade or become sticky. Water-based lube is compatible with all toy materials and condoms, making it the most versatile option.

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A good strapon changes what's possible in the bedroom, full stop. Whether you're a couple looking to switch things up or someone exploring pegging for the first time, the fit and feel of the harness matters more than most people expect. A loose harness kills the moment fast. We carry a solid range here, from beginner-friendly sets with softer, body-safe dildos to sturdier rigs built for more confident use. Sizing, material, and harness compatibility are worth thinking through before you buy, and our sexology-trained customer service team is genuinely happy to help you figure that out.

Dildos Dr. Skin 7inch Cock Suction Cup - Realistic 7 in Dildo with a soft, textured feel and a tapered tip that slides in easy. Suction-cup base and harness-ready design keep it planted for hands-free play and strap-on fun.

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Dr. Skin

Dr. Skin 7inch Cock Suction Cup

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21.5 €

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17,7 cm

3,8 cm

Dildos Strap on Harnes - Strap On Harness with two rings. Flexible and adjustable

Cave Master

Strap on Harnes

36.5 €

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Dildos Creature Cocks - Enchanting Rainbow Glass Dildo - Yellow & Pink - Iridescent glass Dildo with spiraled tentacles delivers firm, textured thrills and a fantasy glow-up. Temperature-play ready, body-safe, nonporous, and dishwasher-safe for easy, confident care.

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Creature Cocks

Creature Cocks - Enchanting Rainbow Glass Dildo - Yellow & Pink

115 €

Dildos Silicone Strap-On - Stylish strapon harnessBlack dildo is sitting onClear veins and foreheadAdjustable straps

You2Toys

Silicone Strap-On

36.5 €

Dildos Silicone Suction Cup Dildo Purple - Textured silicone dildo with strong suction cup base

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EasyToys

Silicone Suction Cup Dildo Purple

27.5 €

14,2 cm

2,8 cm

Dildos Fun Factory Limba Flex - Flexible dildo in two different sizes that hold whatever shape you want, it also has a suction plug base

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Fun Factory

Fun Factory Limba Flex

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23 €

12 - 18 cm

Dildos King Cock - Strap-On Harness 6inch - Well-fitting and comfortable harnessAdjustable harnessRealistic dildo of 17.8cm

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King Cock

King Cock - Strap-On Harness 6inch

54 €

17,8 cm

4,1 cm

Dildos Hollow strapon 25 cm - hollow straponWell-fitting harness in sturdy elasticWhole 25 cm longEye mask included

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Fetish Fantasy

Hollow strapon 25 cm

36.5 €

25 cm

4,2 cm

Dildos Harness Lingerie Heroine Black - Strap-on panties with decorative braces

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Harness Lingerie Heroine Black

45.5 €

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Strap-On-Me - Semi-Real Bendlabe Strap-On

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68 €

7 / 17 cm

3,7 / 3,7 cm

Dildos Leatherette Harness Curious - Adjustable strap on harness with dual function as handcuffs.

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Leatherette Harness Curious

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Dildos Ff Beginners Penetrix Strap-On Black - Ø 3.3 cm, 13 cm long strap-on dildo with adjustable harness. Dildo made of natural latex.

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Fetish Fantasy

Ff Beginners Penetrix Strap-On Black

32 €

14 cm

3,3 cm

Dildos Hollow Strap-on with Balls 18 cm - Realistic hollow dildo strapon - inner Ø 3 cm / inner length 16 cm

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Hollow Strap-on with Balls 18 cm

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18 cm

4,7 cm

Dildos Strap-On Color 4-piece strap-on - Strap on set in 4 parts. String 3 dildos with different shape and size

You2Toys

Strap-On Color 4-piece strap-on

45.5 €

Dildos Silicone Strap On Smooth - Length 13.5 cm / Ø 2.7 cm. Step-on dildo with adjustable harness.

EasyToys

Silicone Strap On Smooth

34 €

13,5 cm

2,7 cm

Dildos Fun Factory - Limba Flex - Black - L - Bend this Dildo into your perfect curve, then hold it there for spot-on, toe-curling pressure. Made from silky body-safe silicone with a slim base, it’s ready for wet play and easy cleaning.

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Fun Factory

Fun Factory - Limba Flex - Black - L

36.5 €

4,1 cm

Dildos Strap-On Dong large - Silicone dildo with suction cup base and harness compatibility

TABOOM

Strap-On Dong large

29 €

16 cm

3,8 cm

Dildos 7" Vibrating Hollow Strap-On with balls - 18.9 cm long hollow strapon with harness

Fetish Fantasy

7" Vibrating Hollow Strap-On with balls

54 €

18,9 cm

4,3 cm

Dildos Beasty Cocks Demon Of Desire - Large fantasy dildo with progressive beads and ultra-soft silicone

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Beasty Cocks

Beasty Cocks Demon Of Desire

90 €

22,5 cm

6,3 cm

730 g

Dildos Strap-On Dong Medium - Silicone dildo with suction cup base — harness-compatible

TABOOM

Strap-On Dong Medium

24 €

14 cm

3,3 cm

Dildos Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap-On 15 cm - 15 cm long hollow dildo with harness

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Fetish Fantasy

Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap-On 15 cm

43 €

15 cm

3,4 - 4 cm

RFSU

RFSU Excite Me Classic Dildo Purple

36.5 €

16 cm

3,2 cm

You2Toys

You2Toys - Six in a Row

77 €

12 - 17 cm

1,8 - 3,7 cm

35 - 223 g

Dildos Harness Lingerie Diva Black - Strap-on panties with open back

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Harness Lingerie Diva Black

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39 €

Dildos You2Toys Strap On Set 3-Pack - Strapon dildo with harness

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You2Toys

You2Toys Strap On Set 3-Pack

80 €

12,5 / 15,5 / 17,5

2,8 / 3,6 / 4,2

No Parts

No Parts Morgan Strapless

36.5 €

9 - 12 cm

3 - 4 cm

Dildos Silicone Beaded Dual Penetrator Black - Dual penetration harness with beaded silicone shaft

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California Exotic Novelties

Silicone Beaded Dual Penetrator Black

30 €

14,5 cm

2,5 cm

Dildos Realstuff Strap On Real Dildo - Length 20 cm / Ø 4 cm. A harness with removable liquid silicone dildo that is really soft. The dildo can be attached to the harness with O-rings and snaps.

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Realstuff Strap On Real Dildo

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36.5 €

20 cm

4 cm

Dildos Raw Recruit Strap-On - Adjustable strap-on harness including silicone dildo. Perfect for the G-spot and prostate

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Chisa Toys

Raw Recruit Strap-On

27.5 €

17,8 cm

3,5 cm

Dildos Rotating Beads Vibrating Dildo - Rotating beads and deep vibration team up for rolling, toe-curling pleasure that feels deliciously real. Remote control and a strong suction base keep the Dildo right where you want it, hands-free.

Toy Joy

Rotating Beads Vibrating Dildo

54 €

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21 cm

4,5 cm

RealCock

RealCock - LED Vibrating Straight Cock With Balls - Transparent - 20cm

44 €

20 cm

4,5 cm

Dildos Hitsens 2 Pink - Dual-density dildo with suction cup and Silexpan® core

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Adrien Lastic

Hitsens 2 Pink

36.5 €

17 cm

4 cm

Dildos Strap-On-Me - Multi Orgasm Realistic Dildo - Black - M - Harness-free Dildo that stays put with a soft silicone bulb and bendy neck for hands-free thrusts. Triple motors plus clit suction serve up 27 remote-ready moods, all waterproof and rechargeable.

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Strap-On-Me - Multi Orgasm Realistic Dildo - Black - M

110 €

3,8 cm

RealCock

RealCock - LED Vibrating Straight Cock - Transparent - 15cm

34 €

15 cm

3 cm

124 g

Dildos Silicone Dual Penetrator - Enjoy hands-free, closer play with a snug ring that supports firmness and feel. Easy-clean, body-safe silicone loves water-based lube for smooth, simple fun.

20% with code: D20

California Exotic Novelties

Silicone Dual Penetrator

30 €

14 cm

3,25 cm

Dildos You2Toys Strap On Set Blue - Experience double pleasure with this strap-on – both the giver and the receiver get to feel the vibrations!

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You2Toys

You2Toys Strap On Set Blue

100 €

13,5

3,6

Silexd

Silexd Model 2 7" Vibration Nude

54 €

17,5 cm

4,5 cm

Dildos Beasty Cocks Octopus Prime - Spiral tentacle texture that wraps, twists and teases every inch

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Beasty Cocks

Beasty Cocks Octopus Prime

60 €

20,2 cm

4,6 cm

455 g

Dildos Dildo Geisha Balls Black XL - Silicone dildo with three internal movement balls

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Dildo Geisha Balls Black XL

77 €

17,7 cm

4,2 cm

ROMP

Romp Piccolo Pegging Kit Blue

38.5 €

14,5 cm

2,9 cm

Dildos Queens Pink Small - Strapless Strapon

Adrien Lastic

Queens Pink Small

57 €

14,5 cm

4 cm

Dildos Vibrating Bendable Strap On - Multifunctional strapless dildo - as many as 3 different vibration motors

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Vibrating Bendable Strap On

125 €

15,2 cm

3,9 cm

Dildos Beasty Cocks Alien Phallus - Fantasy dildo with tapered tip, textured shaft, and suction cup

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Beasty Cocks

Beasty Cocks Alien Phallus

60 €

21,2 cm

4,9 cm

470 g

Real Fantasy

Real Fantasy Deluxe Percy Realistic

30 €

17,5 cm

3,5 cm

Beasty Cocks

Beasty Cocks Eel Of Ecstasy

65 €

46 cm

5,2 cm

865 g

Dildos Squirting Cum Semi Realistic Dildo Vanilla - Ø 3.6 cm / 17 cm penetration length, squirting sperm dildo. Perfect together with a strap on harness!

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Squirting Cum Semi Realistic Dildo Vanilla

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73 €

17 cm

3,6

Real Fantasy

Real Fantasy Deluxe Harris

34 €

14,5 cm

3,6 cm

Dildos Beasty Cocks Lizard Peak - Curved, textured fantasy dildo that finds G-spot or prostate with...

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Beasty Cocks

Beasty Cocks Lizard Peak

50 €

22 cm

5,5 cm

790 g

Dildos Hitsens 3 Vibe Purple - Temperature-responsive dildo that changes firmness with heat and cold

Adrien Lastic

Hitsens 3 Vibe Purple

45.5 €

18 cm

4,3 cm

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Addiction Rave Dong

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47.5 €

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20,3 cm

3,5 cm

Dildos Dildo Geisha Balls Black M - Silicone dildo with three internal balls that move with you

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Dildo Geisha Balls Black M

64 €

15,3 cm

3,6 cm

King Cock

King Cock 20cm Vibrating Silicone Cock

120 €

20,3 cm

5,4 cm

Dildos Strap-On Harness - Stylish strap on harness with red details & 2 sizes of rings.

TABOOM

Strap-On Harness

29 €

Nobü

Nobü Ami Purple

105 €

21,6 cm

Dildos Dr. Skin 6inch Hollow Strap On Vanilla - Penetration length 15.2 cm / ∅ 4.4 cm Hollow strap-on dildo

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Dr. Skin

Dr. Skin 6inch Hollow Strap On Vanilla

34 €

16,5 cm

4,7 cm

277 g

Dildos Real Fantasy Deluxe Winston - Vibrating realistic dildo with suction cup — 10 vibration modes

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Real Fantasy

Real Fantasy Deluxe Winston

63.5 €

19 cm

4,7 cm

Sportsheets

Sportsheets - Saffron strap-On

60 €

3,8 / 4,5 / 5 cm

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ShiShi Midnight Rider

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21,3 cm

3,6 cm

Dildos Double Strap On Purple - Double strap on with outer and inner dildo for shared pleasure!

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Double Strap On Purple

43.5 €

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12,5 / 18 cm

2,5 / 4 cm

Dildos Blaze Deluxe Strap-On Dildo - Ø 4 cm, 13 cm long - Adjustable strap-on harness with dildo. Stylish design & comfortable fit

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Blaze Deluxe Strap-On Dildo

32.5 €

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13 cm

4 cm

Dildos Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap On Night Blue M - Strapless strapon with vibration, air pressure and penetration. Elegant and modern. Three separate motors for the ultimate pleasure.

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Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap On Night Blue M

140 €

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16,2 cm

3,9 - 4,7 cm

Dildos Dr. Skin 7inch Hollow Strap On Vanilla - Strapon with 19 cm long hollow dildo

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Dr. Skin 7inch Hollow Strap On Vanilla

32.5 €

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19 cm

4,6 cm

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