What is BDSM and where do I start?

BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism. It covers a wide range of activities and dynamics between consenting adults. The best starting point is usually something low-intensity, a blindfold, soft restraints, or a light flogger, combined with clear communication and an agreed safe word. You don't need to buy a lot of gear to get started.

Is it safe to order BDSM products online?

Yes. At Mshop, all orders are shipped in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. Payment descriptions are also discreet. Your privacy is protected at every step of the process.

What bondage gear is best for beginners?

Soft padded cuffs and a good blindfold are the most accessible starting points. They're easy to use, comfortable, and reversible, meaning either partner can end the experience immediately without any tools. Avoid metal restraints or anything with a locking mechanism until you're more experienced with the dynamics involved.

What is the difference between bondage and BDSM?

Bondage refers specifically to the physical restraint of a partner, using cuffs, rope, spreader bars, or similar. BDSM is the broader category that includes bondage but also covers power exchange dynamics, impact play, sensory deprivation, and more. Bondage is one part of BDSM, not a synonym for it.

Can I return BDSM products if they don't suit me?

Yes. Mshop offers a 30-day return policy in line with consumer protection law. Products must be unused and in their original packaging. If you're unsure about sizing or compatibility before buying, our customer service team is happy to help you choose.

Fetisch & bondage

98 products

Our BDSM shop carries everything from beginner-friendly bondage restraints to serious gear for experienced players, handcuffs, spreader bars, blindfolds, whips, nipple clamps, gag balls, and a lot more. Mshop has been running since the early 1980s, and the BDSM range has grown faster than almost any other category we stock. One thing most people don't expect: quality matters far more here than with standard sex toys, because poorly made restraints can cause real injury. We only carry products we'd actually recommend. Delivery is discreet, the box gives nothing away, and orders over 69 euros ship free. If you're not sure where to start, the beginner bondage sets are genuinely the right call.

Handcuff

Flogger

Spanking Paddle

Sex Machine

Sex Pillow

Fifty Shades of Grey

Sex Swing

Spreader Bar

Nipple Clamp

Sei Mio

Pain

BDSM Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - 10m

Comes Back Soon

Ouch!

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - 10m

Soft, silky, skin‑kind rope that holds secure knots without roughness or fuss.

9.5 €

10 m

Doc Johnson

Japanese Drip Candles 3pack

3 pack of hot bondage candles for exciting BDSM sex.

14 €

103

Cave Master

Nipple Clamps with Chain

Adjustable nipple clips with soft cover and chain.

13 €

BDSM 50 Shades Darker At My Mercy Nipple Clamps

Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades Darker At My Mercy Nipple Clamps

Nipple clips from 50 Shades Darker

21 €

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27.5 €

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Kitted

Luxury Fetish Kit

6-piece bondage kit in vegan leather with gold hardware

55 €

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64 €

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Lust

Puff spanker

30 cm long sexy tickler and whip in one

8.5 €

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12 €

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BDSM SEI MIO - Total Eclipse - Deluxe Blackout Mask

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Total Eclipse - Deluxe Blackout Mask

Complete darkness, zero eye pressure — shaped for comfort

27.5 €

Cock Master

Cock Cage The Chastity

Ø 4.2 cm and 10 cm long. Chastity belt with an open design.

45.5 €

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55 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage Steel Black Stripe

Ø 3.5 cm cage with open-bar design for intense denial

27.5 €

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45.5 €

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BDSM Model 27 Ultra Soft Silicone Chastity Cage Black

Shots - Mancage

Model 27 Ultra Soft Silicone Chastity Cage Black

Ventilated silicone cage with flexible fit and open design

25 €

3,5 cm

Fifty Shades of Grey

Satin Flogger

High quality flogger / whip made of satin and metal for role play. Robust and stylish

24.5 €

Zado

ZADO Leather Flogger Wood

Whip with wooden handles that can also be used as a dildo! It is 56 cm long and has tails in genuine leather.

45.5 €

Cock Master

Cock Cage The Captive

Ø 3.5 cm × 7 cm. Extra-tight steel cage for restriction.

36.5 €

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55 €

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Fetish Fantasy

Fetish Fantasy Gold Nipple Chain Clamps

Nipple Clamp

23 €

BDSM 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Paddle

Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Paddle

38 cm long paddle in luxurious imitation leather

36.5 €

Fifty Shades of Grey

The Pinch - Nipple Clamps

Explore and experience the unique sensation of balancing between pleasure and pain

23 €

Fetish Fantasy

Beaded Cat-O-Nine Tails

41 cm flogger - vegan

14 €

Dream Toys

Blaze Deluxe Nipple & Clit Clamps

Painful pleasure with two nipple clamps and a clitoral clamp along the same chain. All black design

14 €

Penisplug

Dip Stick Ripped

Stimulating penis plug made of stainless steel - for the more intricate games. Two sizes

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27 €

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Zado

ZADO Leather Flogger Steel

73 cm long whip in genuine leather with handle in stainless steel. Perfect for you who want a whip with a stronger blow!

61 €

Lust

Lust Bondage Paddle

Embroidered paddle with a flexible loop for the hand

18.5 €

Penisplug

Penisplug With Glans Ring 30mm

Penis plug with built-in cock ring. Penetration length 4.5 cm / ∅ 0.3 - 0.8 cm

17.5 €

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18.5 €

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Fetish Fantasy

Fetish Fantasy Silicone Crop Black

Spanker with double silicone end

15.5 €

BDSM Piss Play With Glans Ring & Stopper Hollow 35mm

Penisplug

Piss Play With Glans Ring & Stopper Hollow 35mm

The penis plug for experts in penis enjoyment! Combined penis ring and plug in flexible silicone.

18.5 €

Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades Freed All Sensation

With two adjustable nipple clamps with silicone cover and an adjustable clitoral clamp, you can decide the pressure yourself

21 €

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27.5 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage The Man Cage

Ø 3.7 cm cage with front arch pressure on the glans

36.5 €

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55 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage Full Captivity

Ø 3.5 cm cage, 6 cm long. Full lockable captivity device.

45.5 €

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64 €

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Bad Kitty

Bad Kitty Nipple Jewellery Stainless Flower

Nipple clamps in stainless steel with 4 screws for regulation

18.5 €

BDSM SEI MIO - Strict Tease - Ribbon Ties, Blindfold and Tickler Kit

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Strict Tease - Ribbon Ties, Blindfold and Tickler Kit

Silky, wide ribbons adjust for secure, comfy restraint—no pinch, all tease. Soft blindfold and feather tickler add easy, mix-and-match sensations.

27.5 €

Fetish Fantasy

FF Vibrating Nipple Lassos

Beautiful vibrations for the nipples. Adjustable size, so you can adjust the pressure yourself.

27.5 €

Icicles

Icicles Glass Dildo & Whip No 38

Handblown glass dildo with leather flogger for dual play

57 €

17 cm

3,9 cm

Cock Master

Cock Cage Black Confinement

Ø 3.5–5.2 cm ring, 9 cm cage. Lockable chastity device.

36.5 €

BDSM 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Flogger

Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Flogger

63.5 cm long whip in imitation leather with a stable handle for full control

45.5 €

Cock Master

Cock Cage Steel Balling

Ø 3.7 cm and 10.5 cm long. Chastity belt with open design and princess wall.

36.5 €

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55 €

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TABOOM

Taboom Bondage Essentials Riding Crop Black

Elegant and functional whip in vegan leather

21 €

Vegan

BDSM SEI MIO - Feel the Pinch - Adjustable Nipple Clamp Chain

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Feel the Pinch - Adjustable Nipple Clamp Chain

Dial in the perfect pinch with a smooth screw adjuster and comfy silicone tips. Nickel-free stainless and a short chain invite playful tugs with total control.

17.5 €

Bad Kitty

Bad Kitty Nipple Jewellery Diamond

Nipple clamps in stainless steel with 4 screws for regulation and a fine stone

18.5 €

BDSM SEI MIO - Silent Authority - Progressive Interchangeable Ball Gag Set

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Silent Authority - Progressive Interchangeable Ball Gag Set

Three interchangeable silicone balls, padded strap, velcro release

36.5 €

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41.5 €

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BDSM SEI MIO - Hoodwinked and Kinked - Deprivation Hood with Blackout Panel

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Hoodwinked and Kinked - Deprivation Hood with Blackout Panel

Total blackout means every touch lands harder—hello, delicious suspense and deeper connection. Breathable fabric and adjustable straps keep it comfy, secure, and scene-ready.

27.5 €

NS Novelties

Nipple Clamps C3

Adjustable chest clamps with hooks for weights

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Cave Master

Nipple clamps w. cock ring

Metal cock ring with adjustable nipple clamps and chains

27.5 €

3,8 / 4,5 / 5 cm

Anal Fantasy

Ass-Gasm Cock Blocker

Chastity cage with integrated anal plug and locking mechanism

41.5 €

12,7 cm

5 cm

Cock Master

Cock Cage Black Silicone

Ø 3.5 cm and 8 cm long. Chastity belt in stable silicone with several accessories.

55 €

Cock Master

Cock Cage Steel Full Pleasure

Ø 3.5 cm and 11 cm long very limiting chastity belt for total control.

36.5 €

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55 €

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Zado

Zado Spanking Paddle

Premium solid wood and a leather-wrapped grip deliver delicious sting or deep thud on demand. Ergonomic handle plus wrist strap keeps every playful swing safe, steady, and controlled.

63 €

NS Novelties

Nipple Clamps V1

Adjustable chest clips in an exciting, minimalist design.

45 €

BDSM Clear Captor Chastity Cage With Keys

Outlet

XR Brands

Clear Captor Chastity Cage With Keys

Transparent cock cage that lets you see everything that tight, painful pleasure has to offer. With 4 rings in varied sizes and a hole for urination, you can stay chaste for several hours. Can be locked for an extra level of powerlessness.

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110 €

Cock Master

Cock Cage Stainless Steel

Ø 3.5 cm and 12 cm long. Chastity belt in solid metal with cage opening at the front.

45.5 €

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64 €

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XR Brands

Strict Leather Black Studded Chastity Cage

Flexible chastity cage with internal studs for intense wear

26.5 €

BDSM SEI MIO - Pillow Talk - Positional Pillow Support with Restraint Options

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Pillow Talk - Positional Pillow Support with Restraint Options

Turn two pillows into a plush, angled support that keeps you comfortably in place. Built‑in, nickel‑free D‑rings add discreet restraint options—no bed hardware required.

41.5 €

Fetish Fantasy

Fetish Fantasy Ultimate Bondage Kit

10-piece bondage kit for exploring power play together

45.5 €

Metal Worx

Metal Workx Cock Cage Silver

Stainless steel cage with open design and secure lock

50 €

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73 €

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TABOOM

Prick Stick Electro Shock Wand

Electric shock wand for electro-play — loud crack, tiny spark

42 €

Guilty Pleasure

Guilty Pleasure - Allure - Majestic Pearl Mouthgag

Pearl-adorned silicone gag with vegan strap for elegant control

36 €

Ouch!

Ouch! Glow in the Dark Chastity Cage 3.5 inch / 9 cm - Green

Secure locking and adjustable fit with a unique, self-luminous effect in the dark. Made of body-safe materials for safe and hygienic use.

61 €

California Exotic Novelties

Beaded Clitoral Jewelry

Stimulating clitoral jewelry Silvery pendant with shimmering balls Stainless steel

9.5 €

Zado

Zado Leather Whip Black 90cm

Braided split-suede leather delivers a sharp sting and a delicious, loud crack. 90 cm of balanced reach with a reinforced loop handle for confident control.

63 €

BDSM SEI MIO - Spread Far and Wide - Robust Adjustable Spreader Bar

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Spread Far and Wide - Robust Adjustable Spreader Bar

Padded, nickel‑free cuffs with Velcro closures keep things comfy, secure, and easy to adjust. A 44 cm spread with D‑rings gives you steady separation and plenty of mix‑and‑match options.

55 €

BDSM Dark Chamber Silicone Chastity Cage

XR Brands

Dark Chamber Silicone Chastity Cage

Soft silicone cage with open tip and secure ball strap

30.5 €

Outlet

XR Brands

Tiger King Lockable Chastity Cage

Metal chastity cage with tiger jaw design and three ring sizes

105 €

BDSM SEI MIO - Sensory Surrender - Blindfold, Gag and Earplug Kit

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Sensory Surrender - Blindfold, Gag and Earplug Kit

Sink into comfort-first sensory play with a soft blindfold, body-safe gag, and 3 earplug sizes. Adjustable fit and easy-clean materials keep things cozy, secure, and discreet.

41.5 €

Penisplug

Penisplug With Glans Cage

Large penis ring with glans cage - 100% silicone

18.5 €

BDSM SEI MIO - Majestic Mount - Cuff-Ready Queening and Positioning Stool

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Majestic Mount - Cuff-Ready Queening and Positioning Stool

Lifted, comfy support that keeps positions steady and sessions feeling effortless. Built-in cuffs-ready anchor points add playful control—no DIY required.

110 €