What is BDSM and where do I start?

BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism. It covers a wide range of activities and dynamics between consenting adults. The best starting point is usually something low-intensity, a blindfold, soft restraints, or a light flogger, combined with clear communication and an agreed safe word. You don't need to buy a lot of gear to get started.

Is it safe to order BDSM products online?

Yes. At Mshop, all orders are shipped in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. Payment descriptions are also discreet. Your privacy is protected at every step of the process.

What bondage gear is best for beginners?

Soft padded cuffs and a good blindfold are the most accessible starting points. They're easy to use, comfortable, and reversible, meaning either partner can end the experience immediately without any tools. Avoid metal restraints or anything with a locking mechanism until you're more experienced with the dynamics involved.

What is the difference between bondage and BDSM?

Bondage refers specifically to the physical restraint of a partner, using cuffs, rope, spreader bars, or similar. BDSM is the broader category that includes bondage but also covers power exchange dynamics, impact play, sensory deprivation, and more. Bondage is one part of BDSM, not a synonym for it.

Can I return BDSM products if they don't suit me?

Yes. Mshop offers a 30-day return policy in line with consumer protection law. Products must be unused and in their original packaging. If you're unsure about sizing or compatibility before buying, our customer service team is happy to help you choose.

Fetisch & bondage

105 products

Our BDSM shop carries everything from beginner-friendly bondage restraints to serious gear for experienced players, handcuffs, spreader bars, blindfolds, whips, nipple clamps, gag balls, and a lot more. Mshop has been running since the early 1980s, and the BDSM range has grown faster than almost any other category we stock. One thing most people don't expect: quality matters far more here than with standard sex toys, because poorly made restraints can cause real injury. We only carry products we'd actually recommend. Delivery is discreet, the box gives nothing away, and orders over 69 euros ship free. If you're not sure where to start, the beginner bondage sets are genuinely the right call.

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Sex Swing

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Nipple Clamp

Sei Mio

Pain

Ouch!

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - 10m

Soft, silky, skin‑kind rope that holds secure knots without roughness or fuss.

9 €

10 m

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Zado

Zado Leather Flogger Wood

Genuine leather tails go from teasing brushes to satisfying snap with easy control. A curved wooden handle sits steady in hand and adds extra options when you feel playful.

62 €

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Doc Johnson

Japanese Drip Candles 3pack

3 pack of hot bondage candles for exciting BDSM sex.

13.5 €

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Cave Master

Nipple Clamps with Chain

Adjustable nipple clips with soft cover and chain.

13 €

BDSM SEI MIO - Total Eclipse - Deluxe Blackout Mask

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Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Total Eclipse - Deluxe Blackout Mask

Complete darkness, zero eye pressure — shaped for comfort

27.5 €

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Lust

Puff spanker

30 cm long sexy tickler and whip in one

8.5 €

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12 €

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Kitted

Luxury Fetish Kit

6-piece bondage kit in vegan leather with gold hardware

54 €

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63 €

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BDSM Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Purple - 10m

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Ouch!

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Purple - 10m

Silky-smooth, low-friction rope for comfy knots, easy cleanup, and lasting play.

9 €

10 m

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Cock Master

Cock Cage The Chastity

Ø 4.2 cm and 10 cm long. Chastity belt with an open design.

45.5 €

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54 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage Steel Black Stripe

Ø 3.5 cm cage with open-bar design for intense denial

27.5 €

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45.5 €

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TABOOM

BDSM Drip Candles 2pcs

Low-temperature wax play candles that warm without burning

15.5 €

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Fetish Fantasy

Beaded Cat-O-Nine Tails

41 cm flogger - vegan

13.5 €

BDSM 50 Shades Darker At My Mercy Nipple Clamps

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Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades Darker At My Mercy Nipple Clamps

Nipple clips from 50 Shades Darker

21 €

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27.5 €

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Fifty Shades of Grey

Satin Flogger

High quality flogger / whip made of satin and metal for role play. Robust and stylish

24.5 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage The Captive

Ø 3.5 cm × 7 cm. Extra-tight steel cage for restriction.

36.5 €

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54 €

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Fifty Shades of Grey

The Pinch - Nipple Clamps

Explore and experience the unique sensation of balancing between pleasure and pain

23 €

Zado

ZADO Leather Flogger Wood

Whip with wooden handles that can also be used as a dildo! It is 56 cm long and has tails in genuine leather.

45.5 €

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Dream Toys

Blaze Deluxe Nipple Clamps

Adjustable nipple clamps with chain

15.5 €

BDSM Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Silver - 10m

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Ouch!

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Silver - 10m

Silky‑smooth metallic rope that holds secure knots and looks stunning on camera.

9 €

10 m

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Dream Toys

Blaze Deluxe Nipple & Clit Clamps

Painful pleasure with two nipple clamps and a clitoral clamp along the same chain. All black design

13.5 €

Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Days Of Play - Game

50 secret challenges for you and your partner. Explore BDSM in a playful and exciting way together.

18 €

BDSM Model 27 Ultra Soft Silicone Chastity Cage Black

Shots - Mancage

Model 27 Ultra Soft Silicone Chastity Cage Black

Ventilated silicone cage with flexible fit and open design

24.5 €

3,5 cm

Zado

ZADO Leather Flogger Steel

73 cm long whip in genuine leather with handle in stainless steel. Perfect for you who want a whip with a stronger blow!

61 €

BDSM Fetish Fantasy Gold Nipple Chain Clamps

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Fetish Fantasy

Fetish Fantasy Gold Nipple Chain Clamps

Nipple Clamp

23 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage Steel Balling

Ø 3.7 cm and 10.5 cm long. Chastity belt with open design and princess wall.

36.5 €

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54 €

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Fetish Fantasy

FF Vibrating Nipple Lassos

Beautiful vibrations for the nipples. Adjustable size, so you can adjust the pressure yourself.

27.5 €

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Lust

Lust Bondage Paddle

Embroidered paddle with a flexible loop for the hand

18 €

BDSM Piss Play With Glans Ring & Stopper Hollow 35mm

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Penisplug

Piss Play With Glans Ring & Stopper Hollow 35mm

The penis plug for experts in penis enjoyment! Combined penis ring and plug in flexible silicone.

18 €

BDSM 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Paddle

Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Paddle

38 cm long paddle in luxurious imitation leather

36.5 €

Hidden Desire

Penis Plug Set Large 2 Pcs

S: Ø 9 mm / length 10 cm. L: Ø 5 mm / length 15.7 cm. 2-pack of penis plugs!

18 €

BDSM 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Crop

Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Crop

57 cm long Luxurious riding whip in imitation leather with stylish gold details

36.5 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage Full Captivity

Ø 3.5 cm cage, 6 cm long. Full lockable captivity device.

45.5 €

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63 €

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Penisplug

Penisplug With Glans Ring 30mm

Penis plug with built-in cock ring. Penetration length 4.5 cm / ∅ 0.3 - 0.8 cm

17.5 €

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18 €

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BDSM 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Flogger

Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Flogger

63.5 cm long whip in imitation leather with a stable handle for full control

45.5 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage The Man Cage

Ø 3.7 cm cage with front arch pressure on the glans

36.5 €

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54 €

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Penisplug

Dip Stick Ripped

Stimulating penis plug made of stainless steel - for the more intricate games. Two sizes

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26 €

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27 €

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Fetish Fantasy

Fetish Fantasy Silicone Crop Black

Spanker with double silicone end

15.5 €

NS Novelties

Nipple Clamps V1

Adjustable chest clips in an exciting, minimalist design.

44.5 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage Black Confinement

Ø 3.5–5.2 cm ring, 9 cm cage. Lockable chastity device.

36.5 €

Penisplug

14 Piece Dilator Set

Ø 4 mm to Ø 17 mm set of 14 stainless steel penis plugs

89 €

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115 €

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Cave Master

Nipple clamps w. cock ring

Metal cock ring with adjustable nipple clamps and chains

27.5 €

3,8 / 4,5 / 5 cm

BDSM SEI MIO - Silent Authority - Progressive Interchangeable Ball Gag Set

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Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Silent Authority - Progressive Interchangeable Ball Gag Set

Three interchangeable silicone balls, padded strap, velcro release

36.5 €

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41 €

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Metal Worx

Metal Workx Cock Cage Silver

Stainless steel cage with open design and secure lock

50 €

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72 €

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Magic Shiver

Magic Shiver Flogger

Premium flogger for painfully nice BDSM games!

18 €

California Exotic Novelties

Beaded Clitoral Jewelry

Stimulating clitoral jewelry Silvery pendant with shimmering balls Stainless steel

9 €

TABOOM

Taboom Bondage Essentials Riding Crop Black

Elegant and functional whip in vegan leather

21 €

Vegan

NS Novelties

Nipple Clamps C3

Adjustable chest clamps with hooks for weights

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BDSM SEI MIO - Strict Tease - Ribbon Ties, Blindfold and Tickler Kit

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Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Strict Tease - Ribbon Ties, Blindfold and Tickler Kit

Silky, wide ribbons adjust for secure, comfy restraint—no pinch, all tease. Soft blindfold and feather tickler add easy, mix-and-match sensations.

27.5 €

BDSM SEI MIO - Feel the Pinch - Adjustable Nipple Clamp Chain

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Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Feel the Pinch - Adjustable Nipple Clamp Chain

Dial in the perfect pinch with a smooth screw adjuster and comfy silicone tips. Nickel-free stainless and a short chain invite playful tugs with total control.

17.5 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage Steel Full Pleasure

Ø 3.5 cm and 11 cm long very limiting chastity belt for total control.

36.5 €

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54 €

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BDSM SEI MIO - Sensory Surrender - Blindfold, Gag and Earplug Kit

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Sensory Surrender - Blindfold, Gag and Earplug Kit

Sink into comfort-first sensory play with a soft blindfold, body-safe gag, and 3 earplug sizes. Adjustable fit and easy-clean materials keep things cozy, secure, and discreet.

41 €

TABOOM

Warterberg Wheel

Bring the skin to life or egg your partner with delightful tingling pain!

15.5 €

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Cock Master

Cock Cage Stainless Steel

Ø 3.5 cm and 12 cm long. Chastity belt in solid metal with cage opening at the front.

45.5 €

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63 €

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BDSM SEI MIO - Majestic Mount - Cuff-Ready Queening and Positioning Stool

Newcomer

Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Majestic Mount - Cuff-Ready Queening and Positioning Stool

Lifted, comfy support that keeps positions steady and sessions feeling effortless. Built-in cuffs-ready anchor points add playful control—no DIY required.

110 €

Cock Master

Cock Cage Black Silicone

Ø 3.5 cm and 8 cm long. Chastity belt in stable silicone with several accessories.

54 €

Bad Kitty

Bad Kitty Nipple Jewellery Diamond

Nipple clamps in stainless steel with 4 screws for regulation and a fine stone

18 €

Fetish Collection

Cock Cage II Silver

Stainless steel cage with integrated lock — 8.1 cm length

61 €

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72 €

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BDSM Fetish Fantasy Ultimate Bondage Kit

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Fetish Fantasy

Fetish Fantasy Ultimate Bondage Kit

10-piece bondage kit for exploring power play together

45.5 €

Rosy Gold

Rosy Gold Nouveau BDSM set

Elegant BDSM set with rose gold details. Incl. massage candle.

89 €

BDSM Bad Kitty Nipple Jewellery Stainless Flower

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Bad Kitty

Bad Kitty Nipple Jewellery Stainless Flower

Nipple clamps in stainless steel with 4 screws for regulation

18 €

BDSM Rikers 24/7 Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Cage

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XR Brands

Rikers 24/7 Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Cage

Low-profile steel cage with internal lock for discreet 24/7 wear

155 €

BDSM Dark Chamber Silicone Chastity Cage

XR Brands

Dark Chamber Silicone Chastity Cage

Soft silicone cage with open tip and secure ball strap

30 €

BDSM Ouch! Glow in the Dark Chastity Cage 3.5 inch / 9 cm - Green

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Ouch!

Ouch! Glow in the Dark Chastity Cage 3.5 inch / 9 cm - Green

Secure locking and adjustable fit with a unique, self-luminous effect in the dark. Made of body-safe materials for safe and hygienic use.

61 €

Loveboxxx

First Kinky Starter Set

Start your kinky journey together with this kit, everything you need for a kinky start.

45.5 €

BDSM SEI MIO - Spread Far and Wide - Robust Adjustable Spreader Bar

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Sei Mio

SEI MIO - Spread Far and Wide - Robust Adjustable Spreader Bar

Padded, nickel‑free cuffs with Velcro closures keep things comfy, secure, and easy to adjust. A 44 cm spread with D‑rings gives you steady separation and plenty of mix‑and‑match options.

54 €