Urge to Share - Strapless Strap-On

Urge to Share — Strapless Strap-On

Strapless Strap-On · Silicone · 13 cm / 7.5 cm insertable (bulb) + 13 cm (shaft) · Ø 3.6 cm

Urge to Share is a strapless strap-on designed for couples who want shared stimulation without the bulk of a harness. The smaller bulb is held internally by pelvic floor muscles, leaving the longer shaft free to penetrate your partner vaginally or anally. Two independent motors deliver vibration to both of you — one in the bulb, one at the tip of the shaft — turning this into more than just a positioning tool.

The textured surface on the bulb helps it stay put during movement, though this design does require active muscle engagement. If you're new to strapless designs or find it slips out, you can pair it with a compatible harness (such as Fun Factory Strap Bound) for added stability while still benefiting from the internal stimulation.

Size in Practice

The internal bulb is 7.5 cm insertable with a maximum diameter of 3.6 cm — wide enough to engage pelvic muscles effectively but not so large it becomes uncomfortable to hold. The external shaft is 13 cm long and maintains the same 3.6 cm diameter throughout, offering moderate girth for vaginal or anal penetration. Neither part tapers significantly, so the fullness is consistent from base to tip.

Material & Flexibility

Made from body-safe silicone with a matte finish. The bulb and shaft have some give when squeezed but retain their shape during use — firm enough to penetrate without folding, flexible enough to move with your body. The textured ridges on the bulb are subtle but functional, creating friction that helps resist slipping. Silicone warms to body temperature quickly and holds vibration well.

Compatibility

Strapless by design — meant to be held in place by pelvic floor contraction. Works best for users who can comfortably engage these muscles during movement. Can be paired with most O-ring harnesses if you need extra support; the bulb base is wide enough to sit against most harness fronts without sliding through. Not compatible with suction cups or machines. Both motors are controlled by a single button with 9 preset patterns — no app, no remote.

Cleaning & Care

Splash-proof but not fully submersible. Wipe down after use with warm water and a toy-safe cleaner like Mshop Care Clean:IT — spray, wait 30 seconds, rinse, air-dry. Use only water-based lubricant; silicone lube will degrade the material. Recharge via the included USB cable. Store separately from other silicone toys to prevent material reactions.

Would you love to have a way to fill your holes on your own? Always want to try pegging or strap-on sex? We like to telle you, it’s time to add a Urge to Share - Strapless Strap-On to your drawer.

What is a dildo, exactly?
Hm.... this is our definition :

A dildo is a phallic-shaped toy intended for insertion, normally it comes without vibrations.

What’s the point of a Urge to Share - Strapless Strap-On?

There are probably a billion different types of dildos on the market and just as many reasons someone might want to buy and use one.

To name a few: to affirm gender identity or sexuality, or experience gender euphoria
to make penetration possible when it otherwise wouldn’t be due to partner genitalia, erectile dysfunction, relationship status, or partner availability
to explore double penetration, alone or with a partner
to extend the size of an existing phallus

Think about exactly what you want to use your dildo for and what features you want it to have before buying it.
If you want to use it anally, make sure it has a base

Figure out if you want it to be realistic
Worth mentioning: Most realistic dildos have a pronounced head.
This can increase the chances of hitting the G-spot during vaginal sex, but you might want to consider something smaller if you plan to use it for beginner anal play.