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A good BDSM collar does more than signal a dynamic. The fit, the material, the weight against the skin, these things matter, and a cheap one ruins the mood fast. At Mshop we stock collars in leather, faux leather, and vegan-friendly materials, from discreet day-wear styles to heavier play pieces built for more intense sessions. One thing most buyers don't expect: collar sizing runs small, so always measure the neck before ordering rather than guessing by clothing size. Browse the full range below, and if you're unsure what suits your setup, our sexology-trained customer service team is genuinely useful.

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Bondage Satisfyer - Deluxe Erotic Advent Calendar 2026 - Unwrap 24 days of playful surprises, led by premium Air‑Pulse tech and luxe extras.
One discreet calendar, huge value, and a feel‑good ritual that keeps things exciting.

Bondage Satisfyer - Deluxe Erotic Advent Calendar 2026 - Unwrap 24 days of playful surprises, led by premium Air‑Pulse tech and luxe extras.
One discreet calendar, huge value, and a feel‑good ritual that keeps things exciting.

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Satisfyer

Satisfyer - Deluxe Erotic Advent Calendar 2026

81 €

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Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - 10m - Soft, silky, skin‑kind rope that holds secure knots without roughness or fuss.

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - 10m - Soft, silky, skin‑kind rope that holds secure knots without roughness or fuss.

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Ouch!

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - 10m

9.5 €

10 m

Bondage LoveBoxxx - I Love You - Perfect gift box with mixed sex toys for couples

Bondage LoveBoxxx - I Love You - Perfect gift box with mixed sex toys for couples

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Loveboxxx

LoveBoxxx - I Love You

18.5 €

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Bondage Position Master With Cuffs - Patent bodysuit with four padded cuffs for advanced positioning

Bondage Position Master With Cuffs - Patent bodysuit with four padded cuffs for advanced positioning

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Fetish Fantasy

Position Master With Cuffs

34 €

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45.5 €

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Bondage Blaze Collar and Leash Black - Black collar and leash set with adjustable fit

Bondage Blaze Collar and Leash Black - Black collar and leash set with adjustable fit

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Dream Toys

Blaze Collar and Leash Black

18.5 €

Bondage Bed Bindings Restraint Kit - Turn any bed into a playground — no headboard needed

Bondage Bed Bindings Restraint Kit - Turn any bed into a playground — no headboard needed

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Fetish Fantasy

Bed Bindings Restraint Kit

36.5 €

Bondage Ultimate Door Swing - Sex swing that you easily attach to a doorway without having to drill or screw it on.

Bondage Ultimate Door Swing - Sex swing that you easily attach to a doorway without having to drill or screw it on.

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Cave Master

Ultimate Door Swing

27.5 €

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Bondage Entice Crop - 40 cm long whip in artificial leather with beautifully decorated handle.

Bondage Entice Crop - 40 cm long whip in artificial leather with beautifully decorated handle.

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Chisa Toys

Entice Crop

15.5 €

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18.5 €

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Bondage Blaze Handcuff Black - Stylish & adjustable hand grips

Bondage Blaze Handcuff Black - Stylish & adjustable hand grips

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Dream Toys

Blaze Handcuff Black

26.5 €

Bondage Beginner´s Metal Cuffs Furry - Fur-lined gloves for playful, sexy bondage!

Bondage Beginner´s Metal Cuffs Furry - Fur-lined gloves for playful, sexy bondage!

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Fetish Fantasy

Beginner´s Metal Cuffs Furry

12 €

Bondage Fetishlakan - 200 cm x 230 cm large lacquer sheet. Gives a wonderfully smooth surface and protects the bed from lubricants and body fluids.

Bondage Fetishlakan - 200 cm x 230 cm large lacquer sheet. Gives a wonderfully smooth surface and protects the bed from lubricants and body fluids.

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Orion

Fetishlakan

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17.5 €

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200 cm x 230 cm

Bondage Japanese Drip Candles 3pack - 3 pack of hot bondage candles for exciting BDSM sex.

Bondage Japanese Drip Candles 3pack - 3 pack of hot bondage candles for exciting BDSM sex.

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Doc Johnson

Japanese Drip Candles 3pack

14 €

Bondage Sei Mio Sensually Secured Velvet Handcuffs - Handcuffs

Bondage Sei Mio Sensually Secured Velvet Handcuffs - Handcuffs

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Sei Mio

Sei Mio Sensually Secured Velvet Handcuffs

21 €

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Purple - 10m - Silky-smooth, low-friction rope for comfy knots, easy cleanup, and lasting play.

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Purple - 10m - Silky-smooth, low-friction rope for comfy knots, easy cleanup, and lasting play.

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Ouch!

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Purple - 10m

9.5 €

10 m

Bondage Lit-Up Nipple Suckers Small Purple - Small nipple suckers that increase sensitivity and give a wonderfully sucking feeling.

Bondage Lit-Up Nipple Suckers Small Purple - Small nipple suckers that increase sensitivity and give a wonderfully sucking feeling.

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Dream Toys

Lit-Up Nipple Suckers Small Purple

9.5 €

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Bondage Sei Mio Eyes Wide Shut Soft Velvet Blindfold - Soft velvet blocks all light — heightened sensation begins in darkness

Bondage Sei Mio Eyes Wide Shut Soft Velvet Blindfold - Soft velvet blocks all light — heightened sensation begins in darkness

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Sei Mio

Sei Mio Eyes Wide Shut Soft Velvet Blindfold

13 €

Bondage Handbojor Metal Handcuffs - Chrome metal handcuffs with ratchet lock and double-lock safety

Bondage Handbojor Metal Handcuffs - Chrome metal handcuffs with ratchet lock and double-lock safety

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Cave Master

Handbojor Metal Handcuffs

18.5 €

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Bondage Bed Restraints Kit - Turn your bed into a bondage playground and enjoy the endless possibilities with the Bed Restraints Kit.

Bondage Bed Restraints Kit - Turn your bed into a bondage playground and enjoy the endless possibilities with the Bed Restraints Kit.

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Fifty Shades of Grey

Bed Restraints Kit

49.5 €

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Bondage No Peeking - Two blindfolds for shared sensation and heightened touch

Bondage No Peeking - Two blindfolds for shared sensation and heightened touch

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Fifty Shades of Grey

No Peeking

18.5 €

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21 €

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Bondage Sei Mio Slap and Tickle Dual-Ended Crop and Tickler - Feather Tickler

Bondage Sei Mio Slap and Tickle Dual-Ended Crop and Tickler - Feather Tickler

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Sei Mio

Sei Mio Slap and Tickle Dual-Ended Crop and Tickler

19.5 €

Bondage Blaze Deluxe Wrist Cuffs - Luxurious handcuffs with stylish, embroidered details.

Bondage Blaze Deluxe Wrist Cuffs - Luxurious handcuffs with stylish, embroidered details.

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Lust

Blaze Deluxe Wrist Cuffs

24.5 €

Bondage The Pinch - Nipple Clamps - Explore and experience the unique sensation of balancing between pleasure and pain

Bondage The Pinch - Nipple Clamps - Explore and experience the unique sensation of balancing between pleasure and pain

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Fifty Shades of Grey

The Pinch - Nipple Clamps

18.5 €

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Bondage Svart Fjäder - 38 cm long feather rocker with decorative bow.

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Lust

Svart Fjäder

9.5 €

Bondage Luxury Fetish Kit - 6-piece bondage kit in vegan leather with gold hardware

Bondage Luxury Fetish Kit - 6-piece bondage kit in vegan leather with gold hardware

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Kitted

Luxury Fetish Kit

54 €

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Bondage Rope - 3-metre bondage rope in soft synthetic fibre — bend, bind, explore

Bondage Rope - 3-metre bondage rope in soft synthetic fibre — bend, bind, explore

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You2Toys

Bondage Rope

12 €

3 m

Bondage ZADO Leather Flogger Wood - Whip with wooden handles that can also be used as a dildo! It is 56 cm long and has tails in genuine leather.

Bondage ZADO Leather Flogger Wood - Whip with wooden handles that can also be used as a dildo! It is 56 cm long and has tails in genuine leather.

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Zado

ZADO Leather Flogger Wood

45.5 €

Bondage Blaze Deluxe Ankle Cuffs - Luxurious foot shackles with stylish embroidered details

Bondage Blaze Deluxe Ankle Cuffs - Luxurious foot shackles with stylish embroidered details

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Lust

Blaze Deluxe Ankle Cuffs

23 €

Bondage Puff spanker - 30 cm long sexy tickler and whip in one

Bondage Puff spanker - 30 cm long sexy tickler and whip in one

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Lust

Puff spanker

8.5 €

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Lust Bondage Paddle - Embroidered paddle with a flexible loop for the hand

Lust Bondage Paddle - Embroidered paddle with a flexible loop for the hand

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Lust

Lust Bondage Paddle

18.5 €

Bondage Beaded Cat-O-Nine Tails - 41 cm flogger - vegan

Bondage Beaded Cat-O-Nine Tails - 41 cm flogger - vegan

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Fetish Fantasy

Beaded Cat-O-Nine Tails

14 €

Bondage Sei Mio Strictly Come Quietly Soft Strap Silicone Ball Gag - Velvet-soft strap and body-safe silicone for calm, safe restraint

Bondage Sei Mio Strictly Come Quietly Soft Strap Silicone Ball Gag - Velvet-soft strap and body-safe silicone for calm, safe restraint

Sei Mio

Sei Mio Strictly Come Quietly Soft Strap Silicone Ball Gag

24.5 €

Bondage Ffle Super Suckers Trio - Breast and clitoral suction cups - for intense stimulation!

Bondage Ffle Super Suckers Trio - Breast and clitoral suction cups - for intense stimulation!

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Fetish Fantasy

Ffle Super Suckers Trio

34.5 €

Bondage 50 Shades Darker At My Mercy Nipple Clamps - Nipple clips from 50 Shades Darker

Bondage 50 Shades Darker At My Mercy Nipple Clamps - Nipple clips from 50 Shades Darker

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Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades Darker At My Mercy Nipple Clamps

21 €

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Bondage Fifty Days Of Play - Game - 50 secret challenges for you and your partner. Explore BDSM in a playful and exciting way together.

Bondage Fifty Days Of Play - Game - 50 secret challenges for you and your partner. Explore BDSM in a playful and exciting way together.

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Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Days Of Play - Game

18.5 €

Bondage FF Spandex Open Mouth Hood - Soft hood in spandex with opening for the mouth.

Bondage FF Spandex Open Mouth Hood - Soft hood in spandex with opening for the mouth.

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Fetish Fantasy

FF Spandex Open Mouth Hood

27.5 €

Bondage Blindfold Black - Soft-padded blindfold that blocks out light and heightens every touch

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Cave Master

Blindfold Black

8.5 €

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Bondage Fetish Fantasy Gold Nipple Chain Clamps - Nipple Clamp

Bondage Fetish Fantasy Gold Nipple Chain Clamps - Nipple Clamp

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Fetish Fantasy

Fetish Fantasy Gold Nipple Chain Clamps

23 €

Bondage BK Silicone Gag w. Dong - Dual-sided silicone gag with 9.5 cm dong for creative play

Bondage BK Silicone Gag w. Dong - Dual-sided silicone gag with 9.5 cm dong for creative play

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Bad Kitty

BK Silicone Gag w. Dong

27.5 €

3 cm

Bondage Peech - Binder Tape - Accessory

Bondage Peech - Binder Tape - Accessory

Peech

Peech - Binder Tape

15 €

5 m

10 cm

Bondage 50 Shades Freed All Sensation - With two adjustable nipple clamps with silicone cover and an adjustable clitoral clamp, you can decide the pressure yourself

Bondage 50 Shades Freed All Sensation - With two adjustable nipple clamps with silicone cover and an adjustable clitoral clamp, you can decide the pressure yourself

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Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades Freed All Sensation

21 €

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Bondage Ff spandex 3-hole hood - Soft hood with openings for eyes and mouth

Bondage Ff spandex 3-hole hood - Soft hood with openings for eyes and mouth

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Fetish Fantasy

Ff spandex 3-hole hood

27.5 €

Bondage Sei Mio Under Mattress Bed Restraint System - Spreader

Bondage Sei Mio Under Mattress Bed Restraint System - Spreader

Sei Mio

Sei Mio Under Mattress Bed Restraint System

62 €

You2Toys Bondage Hook - Metal anal hook with bondage ring for deeper rope play

You2Toys Bondage Hook - Metal anal hook with bondage ring for deeper rope play

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You2Toys

You2Toys Bondage Hook

30 €

24 cm

3,5 cm

Bondage Fetish Fantasy Frisky Feather Duster Red - Give your partner a tickling experience

Bondage Fetish Fantasy Frisky Feather Duster Red - Give your partner a tickling experience

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Fetish Fantasy

Fetish Fantasy Frisky Feather Duster Red

14.5 €

Bondage Restraint Set Black - The perfect starter kit for BDSM! 7 different tools to be able to live out your wildest fantasies.

Bondage Restraint Set Black - The perfect starter kit for BDSM! 7 different tools to be able to live out your wildest fantasies.

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Bad Kitty

Restraint Set Black

36.5 €

Bondage FF gold - cuffs - Gold-plated cuffs with ratchet locks and double-lock safety

Bondage FF gold - cuffs - Gold-plated cuffs with ratchet locks and double-lock safety

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Fetish Fantasy

FF gold - cuffs

18.5 €

Bondage Heavy Duty Hogtie Kit - Four-point hogtie system with quick-release hooks and neoprene cuffs

Bondage Heavy Duty Hogtie Kit - Four-point hogtie system with quick-release hooks and neoprene cuffs

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Fetish Fantasy

Heavy Duty Hogtie Kit

27.5 €

Bondage Leahter Leach - Control where they go — and how far they can stray

Bondage Leahter Leach - Control where they go — and how far they can stray

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Zado

Leahter Leach

18.5 €

Bondage Sei Mio Primed for Punishment Faux Leather Flogger - Spanker

Bondage Sei Mio Primed for Punishment Faux Leather Flogger - Spanker

Sei Mio

Sei Mio Primed for Punishment Faux Leather Flogger

19.5 €

Bondage She.E.O - Vibrating & Rotating Nipple & Clitoral Pump - Custom suction plus vibration and rotation—mix 5 modes each for dialed-in thrills. USB-C rechargeable, compact, and wipe-clean with two detachable cups for pinpoint play.

Bondage She.E.O - Vibrating & Rotating Nipple & Clitoral Pump - Custom suction plus vibration and rotation—mix 5 modes each for dialed-in thrills. USB-C rechargeable, compact, and wipe-clean with two detachable cups for pinpoint play.

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She.E.O

She.E.O - Vibrating & Rotating Nipple & Clitoral Pump

29.5 €

Bondage Bijoux Indiscrets - Maze Wide Choker Black - Necklace with leash that can be used both for exciting role-playing games or as a sensual necklace for everyday use.

Bondage Bijoux Indiscrets - Maze Wide Choker Black - Necklace with leash that can be used both for exciting role-playing games or as a sensual necklace for everyday use.

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Bijoux indiscrets

Bijoux Indiscrets - Maze Wide Choker Black

One Size

43 €

Bondage 50 Shades Over The Bed Cross Restraint - Over-the-bed restraint system with soft cuffs and blindfold

Bondage 50 Shades Over The Bed Cross Restraint - Over-the-bed restraint system with soft cuffs and blindfold

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Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades Over The Bed Cross Restraint

44 €

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Bedroom Fantasies Bondage Suitcase - Luxury bondage suitcase with everything you need to explore

Bedroom Fantasies Bondage Suitcase - Luxury bondage suitcase with everything you need to explore

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Bedroom Fantasies

Bedroom Fantasies Bondage Suitcase

135 €

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Bondage Sei Mio Handi-Cuffs Super Strong Silicone Restraint Cuffs - Soft silicone pads for playful restraint—no keys or hassle. Discreet, comfortable, and always easy to put on and take off.

Bondage Sei Mio Handi-Cuffs Super Strong Silicone Restraint Cuffs - Soft silicone pads for playful restraint—no keys or hassle. Discreet, comfortable, and always easy to put on and take off.

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Sei Mio

Sei Mio Handi-Cuffs Super Strong Silicone Restraint Cuffs

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13 €

Bondage Blaze Ankle Cuff Black - Stylish & adjustable ankle boots

Bondage Blaze Ankle Cuff Black - Stylish & adjustable ankle boots

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Dream Toys

Blaze Ankle Cuff Black

26.5 €

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Silver - 10m - Silky‑smooth metallic rope that holds secure knots and looks stunning on camera.

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Silver - 10m - Silky‑smooth metallic rope that holds secure knots and looks stunning on camera.

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Ouch!

Ouch! - Polyester Bondage Rope - Silver - 10m

9.5 €

10 m

Bondage Bed Restraint Set Red - Hand and foot shackles with cross strap, secure your partner to any mattress for bondage dreams wherever you are!

Bondage Bed Restraint Set Red - Hand and foot shackles with cross strap, secure your partner to any mattress for bondage dreams wherever you are!

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Bad Kitty

Bed Restraint Set Red

36.5 €

Bondage Sex Swing - Experience weightless enjoyment! Stable sex swing that enables exciting positions and can withstand up to 150 kg

Bondage Sex Swing - Experience weightless enjoyment! Stable sex swing that enables exciting positions and can withstand up to 150 kg

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Cave Master

Bondage Sex Swing

86 €

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Bondage 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Crop - 57 cm long Luxurious riding whip in imitation leather with stylish gold details

Bondage 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Crop - 57 cm long Luxurious riding whip in imitation leather with stylish gold details

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Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Crop

36.5 €

Bondage 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Paddle - 38 cm long paddle in luxurious imitation leather

Bondage 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Paddle - 38 cm long paddle in luxurious imitation leather

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Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Paddle

36.5 €

Bondage Bijoux Indiscrets Burlesque Pasties Black - Sensual nipple stickers with effective tassels and bows to get a burlesque touch.

Bondage Bijoux Indiscrets Burlesque Pasties Black - Sensual nipple stickers with effective tassels and bows to get a burlesque touch.

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Bijoux indiscrets

Bijoux Indiscrets Burlesque Pasties Black

One Size

14 €

Bondage Velvet Collar with Leash - Black velvet collar with detachable 100 cm leash

Bondage Velvet Collar with Leash - Black velvet collar with detachable 100 cm leash

Ouch!

Velvet Collar with Leash

16.5 €

Bondage Sei Mio Take The Lead Padded Neck Collar and Leash - Padded comfort meets elegant control — adjustable collar with leash

Bondage Sei Mio Take The Lead Padded Neck Collar and Leash - Padded comfort meets elegant control — adjustable collar with leash

Sei Mio

Sei Mio Take The Lead Padded Neck Collar and Leash

24.5 €

Bondage Metal Handcuffs Rose Gold - Handcuffs of metal in rose gold. Adjustable in size and comes with two keys.

Bondage Metal Handcuffs Rose Gold - Handcuffs of metal in rose gold. Adjustable in size and comes with two keys.

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Cave Master

Metal Handcuffs Rose Gold

16.5 €

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Bondage 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Wrist Cuffs - Luxurious handcuffs in imitation leather with stylish gold details

Bondage 50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Wrist Cuffs - Luxurious handcuffs in imitation leather with stylish gold details

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Fifty Shades of Grey

50 Shades of Grey -Bound to You Wrist Cuffs

44 €

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Bondage Fetish Spreader Bar 40 cm - Spreader bar including hand and foot shackles in imitation leather

Bondage Fetish Spreader Bar 40 cm - Spreader bar including hand and foot shackles in imitation leather

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Fetish Collection

Fetish Spreader Bar 40 cm

44.5 €

40 cm

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The short answer: intention and construction. A collar designed for bondage play is built to be worn during scenes, meaning the hardware is smooth and won't snag, the fit can be adjusted quickly, and the materials are chosen with skin contact in mind. Fashion chokers and pet collars look similar but aren't made for the same purpose, and the difference shows up fast when you're actually using one.

Most submissive collars fall into a few broad categories. Padded fabric or vegan leather options are the gentlest against the skin and a solid starting point if you're new to this kind of play. Full-grain leather collars are stiffer, hold their shape better, and develop a patina over time, they're the classic choice for a reason. Metal collars (usually stainless steel or aluminium) are the most visually striking and the most durable, but they're also the least forgiving if the fit isn't right, so sizing matters more with those.

D-rings are worth paying attention to. A single front D-ring is standard and works for most leash or restraint attachments. Some designs include a second ring at the back, which opens up more positioning options during scenes. If you plan to attach anything to the collar, a leash, a chain, cuffs, check the ring gauge. Thin decorative rings aren't load-bearing; proper bondage hardware is.

Fit is the first thing to get right. You should be able to slide two fingers comfortably between the collar and the neck, snug enough to feel present, loose enough that there's no pressure on the throat. Collars that sit too tight are a safety issue, not just a comfort one. Most designs come with multiple adjustment points, but measure before you buy if you can.

Material choice comes down to what the scene calls for and how sensitive the wearer's skin is. Vegan leather and neoprene are soft and easy to clean. Real leather needs a bit more care but feels more substantial. If skin sensitivity is a concern, look for collars with a smooth inner lining rather than raw stitching against the neck.

Locking collars add a layer of psychological intensity that some people find central to their dynamic. The lock itself isn't about physical security, it's symbolic. That said, always keep the key accessible during a scene. Non-locking buckle collars are faster to remove and just as effective for most play.

If you're building out a bondage kit rather than buying a single piece, it's worth thinking about how the collar fits with other items. The Furry Love Cuffs pair naturally with a collar for wrist restraint play, and the Ouch! Polyester Bondage Rope (10m) gives you a lot of flexibility for more elaborate setups. The Lilla fetishboxen is a good option if you want a curated starter set rather than piecing things together individually.

This isn't a disclaimer, it's practical advice from people who've been selling bondage gear for over 40 years. Collar play, especially anything involving a leash or attachment, requires a clear safe word and a partner who's paying attention. Pressure on the neck can escalate quickly, and the person wearing the collar needs to be able to signal discomfort immediately.

Never leave someone unattended while wearing a collar that's attached to anything. That applies to leashes, chains, and rope alike. The Love Mask is often used alongside collar play for sensory deprivation, but if vision is restricted, verbal communication becomes even more important.

Aftercare matters too. Some people find collar play emotionally intense regardless of how physical the scene was. Check in with each other afterwards, it's part of the experience, not an optional extra.

Leather collars should be wiped down after use with a damp cloth and conditioned occasionally to stop the material from drying out and cracking. Don't soak them or leave them wet, leather and prolonged moisture don't get along. Metal collars are the easiest to maintain: a quick wipe with a clean cloth is usually enough, and they won't degrade with regular use.

Fabric and vegan leather options can often be hand-washed, but check the product details first. Hardware (buckles, D-rings, locks) should be checked periodically for any signs of wear or rough edges. A collar that's used regularly will show wear faster than one that isn't, that's normal, but it's worth inspecting before each scene rather than assuming it's fine.

Store collars flat or hanging rather than folded. Leather especially will crease and weaken at fold points over time. A small dedicated bag or box keeps the hardware from scratching other items and keeps everything in one place.

Measure the neck circumference and add a couple of centimetres for comfort. The standard fit guide is two fingers between the collar and the skin, enough to feel secure without any pressure on the throat. Most collars have several adjustment points, but if you're between sizes, go larger rather than smaller for safety.

Not inherently. Locking collars add psychological intensity and are popular in D/s dynamics, but from a pure safety standpoint a buckle collar is faster to remove in an emergency. If you use a locking collar, always keep the key within arm's reach during a scene, never put it somewhere you'd have to search for it.

Yes, and many people in ongoing D/s relationships use a discreet collar for everyday wear as a symbol of their dynamic. For this purpose, thinner and lighter designs work better than heavy bondage collars, look for something that sits comfortably for hours and doesn't draw attention if that matters to you. Stainless steel and slim leather options are popular for this use.

A fashion choker is decorative and not built for attachment or restraint. Bondage collars are constructed with reinforced hardware, load-bearing D-rings, and materials that hold up to use. If you plan to attach a leash or connect the collar to other restraints, use a collar designed for that purpose, a fashion choker isn't built for it and the hardware can fail.

Wipe it down with a slightly damp cloth after use and let it air dry completely before storing. Apply a leather conditioner every few months to keep the material supple. Avoid soaking it in water or using alcohol-based cleaners, which dry out the leather. Metal hardware can be cleaned separately with a dry cloth.