BEHAVE Be my slave set

BEHAVE Be My Slave Set

This body harness lets you control exactly how much restraint you want during play. Multiple rings at different heights mean you can adjust the intensity — from gentle restriction to full immobilisation. Restrain wrists in front across the chest, or behind the back for deeper submission. The positioning options give you freedom to explore different dynamics and scenarios together.

The padded straps feel soft against skin even during longer sessions. The durable construction holds up to forceful movement without digging in uncomfortably. Every element — collar, waist belt, and wrist cuffs — adjusts independently, so it fits bodies of different sizes and lets you fine-tune the restraint level as you play.

Intensity & Experience Level

Intensity: Medium — suitable for couples exploring restraint play beyond basic handcuffs.

The adjustable rings make this ideal if you're moving beyond entry-level bondage. Start with loose restraint and gradually increase tension as you both become comfortable. The multiple attachment points let you experiment with different levels of control without needing separate equipment.

Agree on a safe-word before you start. The wearer should be able to communicate clearly throughout — check in regularly, especially during your first sessions.

Material & Quality

Made from durable polyurethane with soft padding on all contact points. The material withstands pulling and tension without stretching out or breaking. The padding prevents chafing during movement, so sessions can last as long as you want without discomfort.

The metal rings are securely attached and won't pull free under pressure. All adjustable buckles lock firmly — they won't slip loose mid-scene.

Fit & Adjustment

The collar adjusts up to 17 cm diameter. The body strap measures 46 cm long, and the waist belt extends to 116.5 cm. Wrist cuffs adjust up to 9 cm diameter.

Put the harness on loosely first, then tighten each section individually. The collar should sit comfortably without restricting breathing — you should be able to slide two fingers underneath easily. Adjust the waist belt so it sits securely without pinching. Test the wrist cuffs before restraining fully — the wearer should be able to move their hands slightly even when secured.

How to Use It

Decide together whether wrists will be restrained in front or behind the back. Front positioning allows the wearer more control and is easier for beginners. Behind-the-back creates deeper vulnerability and works well once you're both comfortable with the dynamic.

Secure the collar first, then the waist belt, then guide the wrists through the cuffs. Attach the wrist cuffs to your chosen ring — higher rings create more tension and restriction, lower rings allow more movement.

Start with shorter sessions — 10 to 15 minutes — and gradually extend as you learn what works. The restrained partner should communicate throughout. Never leave someone restrained and alone, even briefly.

If the wearer reports tingling, numbness, or cold hands, release immediately. These are signs of restricted circulation.

Cleaning & Storage

Wipe down with a damp cloth and mild soap after each use. Pay attention to the padded areas where skin makes contact. Let it air-dry completely before storing.

Store flat or loosely coiled in a drawer or box — avoid hanging it by the collar, as this can stretch the straps over time. Keep it away from sharp objects that might puncture the padding.